Varanasi, is one of the holiest cities in the Hindu faith. It’s where all Hindu’s are supposed to come to be cremated. Believed to be the “city of light” founded by the god Shiva. It is one of the oldest living cities in the world. People have inhabited it continually, maintaining its religious life since the 6th century B.C.
I loved Varanasi. I really can’t explain why yet, but I loved it. Gretchen appreciated the history and wealth of ritual here, but not the same way I did. More then any other city, I feel like Varanasi had a lot to teach me still about life. While most people seeking new found spiritual insight in India flock to Rishikesh or the hundreds of ashrams spread throughout the country. I think I might have found that feeling in Varanasi. The solitude of death along the rivers edge. The music emanating from its streets. The edification in a drenching rain wandering alleys in the old city. It was enlightening watching a city work the way its worked for thousands of years. I can’t imagine it looking or operating any differently then this throughout time.
Why did I give Gretchen the map?
After traveling for 24 hours we checked into our hotel and took a nap. A friend whom I work with in the school district has been traveling to India for decades. He has also been studying music in Varanasi for quite some time. He recommended a nice hotel on the south side of town called
Hotel Haifa. Located near the Asi Ghat, maybe two blocks off the water- it allowed us to freely explore just minutes from the main city, but retreat to a quiet area to relax.
Riding on a cycle rickshaw
Varanasi essentially has a main road paralleling the Ganges River. Over time it has spread and urbanized from the river, but that is still the heart of Varanasi. Not only holy to Hindu’s, but the nearby deer park in Sarnath, about 10 kilometers away, is where Buddha gave his first sermon.
For less than a dollar you can travel up and down the ghats (steps at rivers edge) on cycle rickshaw. There are over a hundred ghats in Varanasi along the river. They range in appearance from complex stone sites for holy rituals to simple access at waters edge for bathing. As water levels rise and fall throughout the year from monsoon rains, so to does their use and appearance change. Several of the ghats you can not photograph. They serve as cremation sites for the dead. Here we just watched, sometimes from afar, sometime close enough to smell the smoke. Other ghats are for bathing and washing. Some are for pujas or other holy rituals praising Mother Ganga for her nourishing flow.
The weather was overcast with intermittent rain all four days we were here. Having the sun blocked behind clouds actually made it feel a little cooler, despite heavy humidity. I really enjoyed the people in Varanasi. We took the opportunity to let a couple people into our life and carefully control our destiny for that day. First a young boy, maybe 13 or 14. We met him while his older brothers were playing cricket at rivers edge. He tried and tried to get us into his family’s textile shop. When he discovered we weren’t prepared to buy anything, he became our friend. He told us what its like to go to school in Varanasi. He told us what its like to work in his families shop at an early age. And he told us what its like to loose a parent.
We once again had the rules of cricket briefly explained to us. It still didn’t make that much sense. After a lot of chit chat, the boy sat with us in silence for a little while. Cool breezes blew off the water, it was almost comfortable. I took a few more photographs and we left. Wandering the alleys back to our hotel we could hear music emanating from several temples. It was the week of the holy festivals of Shiva. Though darkness was encroaching, a lot of temples were lit with candles or a single light bulb. Peeking through the stone lattice into one temple I could see a group of people squatting around burning incense. Acapella songs being sung, the only word I recognized was Krishna.
A new friend
Midnight loom work
We were constantly tempted to take a requisite boat ride. I resisted the first couple days trying to figure out what a fair price would be. Multiple young men solicited us. The price I finally negotiated was double what the Rough Guide recommends, but I suppose that is inflation. The water current is swift on the Ganges. We easily floated down river about 15 minutes, passing dozens of ghats and gaining a whole new perspective on the city. It then took us 45 minutes to paddle back up river to our starting point. From the river we saw families playing, children swimming, men bathing, women laundering, and bodies burning. From a distance you can see several smoke plumes coming from fires. Funeral parties crowd above. Doms, or the untouchable cremators dressed in white sheets move back and forth, carrying out their work.
Relaxing on the Ganges
Approaching a burning ghat, please put away your camera
Share this ghat with some water buffalos
Napping on the Ganges
Boat paddlers
When visiting either of the two burning ghats you hear “cremation is education”. The metaphysical transformation from life, to death, to ash through the river, and once again back to life through reincarnation. I mean no disrespect by this narrative. I know what I don’t know, and that is the totality or complete understanding of what I saw. I will try to capture it in simplest terms, leaving out details which I don’t understand, or just don’t know. If you are the wiser, please edify me, correct me, and help me learn.
On the outskirts of the first cremation ghat we visited a hospice house. Meeting another lone young male in the streets, he offered to show us around these holy ghats. I was a bit wary of an oncoming tout, or tip for his “services”, but he told us several times he was just bored, and enjoyed showing foreigners around. So we followed him.
The hospice house was a three story stone building overlooking the main cremation ghat. It was a home for the undead. After seeing several dead bodies in the train station the day before, I was only partially prepared for this experience. All around us, laying upon the floor, mostly uncovered, were crippled and starving people, dying people. Some from Varanasi, others abandoned by their families and condemned to die in this city. Those who die in Varanasi will achieve enlightenment. Those who are cremated in Varanasi will be more prosperous in the next life. To paraphrase eons of belief in just two simple sentences.
We climbed the stairs through the hospice house. Each level the feeling of death grew thicker. From the roof balcony we had a panorama view of the entire ghat. Below us funeral parties carried in bodies covered upon a bamboo stretcher. People waited in que as the dead were decorated with flowers and jewelry. The bodies were then dipped into the holy water of the Ganges River before being placed upon a smoldering fire. I was surprised at the small size of these cremation fires. I pictured blazing bonfires swallowing up corpses in must minutes. Instead I saw tiny flames barely consuming the dead as families stood nearby. Feet and hands sticking out unburned, as Doms patiently added logs to the fire.
The following excerpt comes directly from my journal after experiencing the ghats and talking with several people.
“It takes 3 hours to slow burn a body, after they have soaked in the Ganges, and about 150 - 300 kilograms of wood, that amount was not clear, they use banyan tree wood at 150 INR per kilogram. There are 5 types of dead people not burned; Sadhus, snake bite victims, children, lepers, and I can’t remember the fifth. The Doms are the caste which handle the dead, they are untouchables. I saw several bodies burned. I did not see the actual body, but saw the shape covered with adornments of cloth and flower pedals. Only men attended the ceremony as women are to emotional to be here, and still afraid of Sati… while at the second burning ghat the Dom explained that even poor people get cremated here, that rich people will donate wood, but the poorest people get partially burned wood, and a lot of the local Muslims donate money for wood for the poor…"
After the body is initially placed upon an unlit fire, the Dom takes grasses and lights it from an eternal flame within the nearby temple. He then walks around the body five times, clockwise, before placing the fire starter beneath the logs. It is easy to identify whom the dead are from afar. The color of the cloth draping the deceased tells whether they are young, old, male or female.
By the end of the afternoon my eyes burned from the smoky air. We had enough education about cremation for one day. My own thoughts of death and transformation are pouring through my mind. But to remain as objective as possible, I will save those for another piece of prose on
another blog.
Romantic boat ride on the spectacular Ganges River
Varanasi is also known for textiles and oils. We decided to explore a couple of the silk shops. Its actually suave, for men to wear silks. Very European. But no, I didn’t buy one.
Precious gorgeous silk
It starts here crushing and grinding
We spent several hours in this oil shop. I learned a lot about how various remedies and oils are made. It was amazing to see how dozens of oils are crushed or ground from the raw materials. They ranged from roots to rocks, wild grasses to precious herbs. All turning into an assortment of valuable oils. Some esteemed for their beautiful perfume smell, others carrying aromatic healing qualities.
A plethora of oils and fragrances
I think Varanasi embraces you only when you embrace her. Teeming streets and vacant alleys spread throughout this living city. Generations built upon many millennia of life. Rituals today that have been occurring since its birth. The holiest of “tirthas” or crossing places, giving the devotee access to the divine. The visitor, even a glimpse of what eternity here looks like. Everyday life struggling with an identity formed between the past, unknowing of the future.